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Behind the fetishy feel of the leather clothing, the collars and the sexual dominance protocols is basically the same thing. The spanking and the other trappings are a turn on. Some people want to express their submission by kneeling, calling the dominant Sir or Ma'am, or by wearing special adornments (such as a collar). For others, the symbol of ownership is simply a wedding ring and without the outward trappings they choose to obey in much the same way a sub obeys her Dom.
There isn't a huge difference and in the end, it is all a turn on for both if it is working properly.
by a Taken In Hand reader on 2004 May 15 - 15:40 | reply to this comment
The Sexuality of Spanking
The links between sexual responses and the act of being taken in hand for a bare bottomed spanking by our beloved partner seem so very strong to me. In the post "The Lines Blur", the author has managed to cover several of the possible emotional responses to this act, but one not mentioned that I think is significant is the response to just the "idea" of his authority. It too elicits a sexual response to enough women, as I have seen it described, that it makes me wonder why some continue to describe it as non-sexual for them even in entirely disciplinary settings for punishment. That sexual response as I understand it is deeper love and desire for thier partner because of his involvement with them, and most find it thrilling and satisfying. If these kinds of feelings were not present would/should any of us consent to participate in discipline that involves corporal measures with a life partner? Would he consent to administer corporal punishment without that link in place? If so, would it be hollow and lack the binding qualities I find so necessary to motivate behavior changes? Is sexual response not part and parcel of a loving relationship and attraction to one another? Can discipline happen in isolation?