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Submission to the man's will is still, and always must be, the prelude to pleasure, and the association of ideas will probably always produce this much misunderstood instinct. Now, I find, indirectly from other women and directly from my own experience, that, when the point in dispute is very important, and the man exerts his authority, the desire to get one's own way completely obliterates the sexual feeling, while, conversely, in samll things, the sexual feeling obliterates the desire to have one's own way. Where the two are nearly equal a conflict between then ensues and I can stand aside and wonder which will get the best of it, though I encourage the sexual feeling when possible, as, if the other conquers, it leaves a sense of mental irritation and physical discomfort. A man should command in small things, as in nine cases out of ten this will produce excitement. He should advise in large matters, or he may find either that he is unable to enforce his orders or that he produces a feeling of dislike and annoyance he was far from intending.
There again I recognised myself, in the conflicting desires to have my own way, and to obey my husband, and realising that I felt happier and more satisfied if I obeyed him than if I was in conflict with him, in other words if I let the sexual feeling preval over the desire to get my own way.
There is a lot of material in this book that does not appeal to me on a personal level, I have no interest in recreating childhood experiences, for instance, or in schools or slavery or dominant lady governesses, but what this book did for me was to make me feel better about my own interest, to realise that it might be kinky, but that it didn't mean I was sick or in need of psychiatric help or anything, that it was okay to like being spanked, and to like thinking about it.
It is by far the most interesting and amusing book that has been published on this subject so far, and I would recommend it to anyone with an interest in spanking.
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